Angel IMHO this is not a problem. Due to working Dion has been left with my mum for at least a day a week since he was 3 months old. He is fine with her, no probs. BUT if he see's me, or hears my voice he goes hysterical until I hold him.
He doesnt mind being held by the other mums at playgroup, as long as he can see me. I have trained him that way to be honest, as I do feel they need to feel a little Ok about being held by others. I would give him to them, but stay and talk to him, he loves seeing me face on for a change. I dont feel the need to leave him either ( though I do like ducking to Safeways without ANY of the kids, just coz they dont really enjoy it, so I try not to subject them to groceries too often)
The twins ( whom are 7) have only spent 3 nights away from us and they were only in the past year. Rianna has never been away from us overnight. I dont miss my freedom either.

You have to have trust big time if you want to leave your child with someone. My kids have only ever been babysat by Granny, Aunty, Pop. I'm not comfortable with it.

You do what feel right to you, and dont let other people judge you, or thrust their opinions on you. Do what makes you and Kynan happy.