Thanks, I REALLY, REALLY appreciated your posts!!
Especially the "confessions" - there aren't enough of those on here!

I just felt so awful for getting so upset with both DDs.
This was my big trigger: I am so tired at the moment.
DD2 is going through a clingy thing at the moment - wants to only sleep with me.
DD1 is going through a jealous thing at the moment - wants to be cuddled by me, but only when DD2 is being BF or put down for a sleep, at other times she doesn't want a bar of me!
I just NEEDED DD2 to go to sleep, and she just WOULDN'T go, and just as I'd get DD2 settled, DD1 would throw a tantrum (mainly because I was with DD2) and wake her, so I had to go back and get DD2 settled, just to have DD1 do something to wake her up again, and then meanwhile throw another attention seeking tantrum because I was not spending enough time with her!!!
And I lost it. Big time. Nuff said.