Hehe you should so come and check out my parenting - you would feel like a bloomin' rock star!

I'm not perfect and I don't ever pretend to be. Those who are my friend on Facebook know this and I don't want to ever be one of those mums who pretend to be coping when their not - what kind of bull**** pressure must that be to live up to?

I'm not an instinctual mother. I swear. Ffs is a common phrase in this house. As is "what the hell is wrong with you guys, you're all acting like psychos" because at that time they really are!

Being a mum is hard enough without worrying about if you are doing it well enough. I'm totally over the comparisons between mothering styles. Would a perfect mother parent my children differently than I do? Probably but who knows? 4 kids 6 and under is really hard, got my terrible two, my threenager, argumentative 4 and bratty 6 year old. My neighbours would hear me yelling, but that's OK cos I hear them yelling at their kids too.

I could list everything that I've done wrong today but my fingers would get sore because I'm on my phone. You are welcome to look me up on Facebook though if you'd feel better having a friend doing it worse than you