You do have a long time to go until the birth Ryn, he just needs some time to learn too. You are so lucky to have the Active Birth Centre in the UK - why not go together and do a course? Will he come to some independant birth classes with you? I can locate some others if you like, there's no need to kick him out completely unless it's going to be a real problem and he doesn't want to be there but it's early days yet. It's why I get so many calls from last minute mums - all of a sudden it hits them that they are about to give birth and they aren't sure they have the support they want / need. So let him have a chance and time to develop his beliefs too, but if he is dead set against you, you can also consider a doula (check out the doulas UK website) or private midwife who will help you with things or if worst comes to worst, you can decide against him being there.
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