I have felt gender disappointment too. Can I just say, it's not about not valuing boys and being disappointed in their gender, but rather that I've felt disappointed at not experiencing girls. It's more about gender yearning, than disappointment.

I always knew I would have two boys. I knew both boys were boys while I was pregnant and when I picture my 3rd possible child, I know he's a boy too. So I'm kind of resolved now I love them to bits, it's not about them. It's about something else I'll never have. I'm so glad for you Cassius that you don't feel those yearnings and sense of loss because it's hard sometimes.

That said, I like siblings all of one sex too. There's something very special about it. There's always a win whichever way the gender dice rolls