Surely they checked and knew you were torn before doing stitches though.

Hoti- do you mean that your MW never checks if/how much you have torn? How do you decide on a treatment plan without checking? I'm not trying to sound facetious either. It's a genuine question

Bella- Blissful Herbs? I love that stuff!
Yeah, i like the blissful herbs idea too. As a 3rd time mum, i know baby will be looked after. i have many books and dvds but things to make me feel special are so cherished.

I didn't say she doesn't check. If the woman wants to, she will have a look, but it is not normal practise 'routine' to do so.