My second dd is the one I feel completely lost on how to parent! We might be on to something!

Oh and bella my eldest will have spent the first 12 years with parents like that by the time little man is 2 but she and her brother were the ones crying at bed time tonight, sad that they were going to miss me and the baby tomorrow when school goes back ....can't be that bad can it if they still love me that much

I agree lady bug I think I'd feel sorry for someone if they announced now