It's cool Tegam, we all getcha
I feel the same way - and you're right, they don't care. I think too many people mark success or failure by whether you're alive at the end of it or not. Personally, that's not good enough for me!
I'm sorry you and your DH don't see eye to eye over this, that's gotta be extra, extra stressful. Is he a rational bloke, would it be helpful to see the risks of inductions to help him to understand better where you're coming from?
It can be so hard to know what is best, or what is the right decision to make when you can't even trust those giving you medical advice