Aw, that's lovely.

Tashy, my 2c. I had the private OB and private hospital with lovely private room and decent food. Sucky birth but. Disrespectful midwives who didn't know me from a bar of soap. Arguments with the private OB. We were much happier with DD's birth even with the transfer to the local public hospital with crappy-arse food.
Whatever you decide, you've gotta feel good about it. Your IM sounds like a gem.