Ivana, just to clarify, I am not at all saying those who formula feed are not welcome. This site will support anyone no matter what they do, but we will not specifically promote formula feeding. This doesn't mean I don't agree with it or support it but I think if anything, it's breastfeeding that needs promotion, we all know that if there are complications we can use formula and that's fine. Having said that, I don't even promote breasfeeding specifically, in fact I post gentle and non-gentle articles on BB all the time, just to share and to get a range of perspectives. Obviously I posted this article here in the gentle forums to get some pro-breastfeeding perspectives knowing that it would stir up a storm elsewhere. That doesn't mean they can't be negative about the article or we can have a good old pow-wow about how bad formula is. The thing I love about BB is that we have so many intelligent women here from all walks of life who make interesting contributions, and I love hearing them. But sometimes it gets too emotional, or things get taken the wrong way so it needs extra steering or moderating. It's sad because I really did try had to have a discussion about it without anyone needing to become defensive, but I guess it's a hard task. My passion is for informing and empowering women, I think we have access to far too much information of the wrong kind. It's too easy to publish anything these days and I think there needs to be more of the right information out there. Maybe one day...