Can anyone give me some great advice on how to deal with this issue. Me and my fiance live with his parents. And my fiance is a only child.
I am only 22 so i dont want all that old fashion crap but my MIL goes every weekend out and buys a item or object for the upcoming baby. I have told her not to. As 1 i dont get to choose the items for my baby and 2 she is taking over by buying all this stuff she likes that i dont. i said at the beginning of the pregnancy i dont want teddy bear stuff and character stuff all over the room AND that i dont like teddy bear pictures so every item she has pretty much brought has teddy bears on it. Cause she likes teddy bears. And i said i wanted to decorate the wall by getting a belly plaster done and a canvass photo of the baby when she arrives. But now the MIL has gone and brought the teddy bear wall stickers. Yes it is nice that she is buying all this stuff. But i feel overpowered and my fiance wont do anything cause it saves him buying it. Im worried if she does this now then when bub is born she will keep on doing when i dont want my little girl growing up she can get what she wants off grandma.