Hey all.
I ended up having a big discussion with my fiance. Which ended out into a big fight. Cause he doesnt want to move out. And frankly i believe its because when he is stuck his mum bails him out eg pays his bills , cooks his dinner does all the house work for him. So i chucked a big sook and we will be moving out when the i can start working again. But i reckon when that time comes there going to be Bifs. I have just had enough its got to the point where we were looking at a house to buy and renovate and she was telling us where we will be building things , in what position the stairs will be in. And how i will have the baby shower. So when it comes to us looking for a house after bubs born they wont be coming along. Like i know everyone has a right to there own opinion. But when i dont get a say in my own stuff. I have allowed her to be in the room when the baby is born. But to be fair i have said that i dont her all my mother to be saying a peep on how i should be doing things. As i will be listening to the midwife and fiance only. Cause im worried she will try and tell the midwife what i have to do. Like i have said before she not a bad person. But how do u stand up to someone who has made every decission for her only son her whole life.