sounds like a similar situation to what im in although i dont no my mil at all she can be extremly rude and noisy i cant walk into the house with a shopping bag without her putting her nose into it and wanting to no what we brought and how much it cost. she is my partners boss cause he works for a family company and she pays him so she wants to no every week were he is spending his money and what on? its so annoying cause where together and were starting a family and now she is not only sticking her nose into his life but its also my life as well now. ARghhh mil's she also goes mad at him if we buy something for bub and she thinks its expensive saying "well back in my days we didnt need that and our baby's were fine" sorry bout that rant she has just annoyed me today.

hope everything works out for the best for you and good luck with your mil.