Hi Kimm, I think I've seen you around before.!!

It can be hard when people don't tell you what you want to hear, so don't tell them. Just do what you are going to do anyway.

There are plenty of mums that have had babies "young" (whatever that is) but lots will tell you I can be harder for all sorts of reasons.
If you are looking to be judged by others - no matter what your life choices are - you will be. Don't kick me for this one girls - but when you are young you DO give a rats about what people think. I was worried people would judge me badly if DD had a tanty in public, now I don't care.

If you want to have a bub now -do it, but don't waste your time or energy giving a crap about what others think or say. It is your mothering skills that matter, not your age.