Arghh..... :mad:

I know exactly how you feel!! I was 19 when I married and I was ready to start a family then. Fastforward a year and now DH is ready too! Which was great until I got a new job so once again TTC has been put off till at least end of this year/early next year.

I hate people who look at age and automatically say you are too young. Maturity isnt dependent on age at all! I have all my family etc telling me not to have kids!

I guess no one knows what is right for you but you. I find it really hard as well because I don't want to tell any one about TTC #1 when it happens because I just can't deal with the lectures and other crap!