Kirsty - Yeah I never really thought logan could be that bad.. Boy was wrong!
Jo - I'm sure you'll go great at Redlands. I've heard good things! I'm so jealous of the excitement you must be feeling right now! So close to the due date! And don't worry about getting to the right hospital, I'm sure bubs will give you some notice early in the day as to whether you're going into labour.
Nina - I'm sure you'll love it over here in Brisbane. The only thing will be the weather, however if you're from Darwin, I'm sure you're more than used to hot weather. Are you moving over here before or after you give birth?
Sally - that's so good to hear you're working things out between your ex!
Me, on the other hand, is having constant troubles with mine. Girls do you think I'm being unreasonable? Our situation:
Nick and I were together for just over a year living in Melbourne, I moved back home to brisbane for uni, a week later found out I was pregnant. He moved up a few months later, even though we were sort of broken up. After the baby was born, we got back together and were together for 1.5years, then broke up. Now a year on.. he told me today he's thinking of moving back to Melbourne "for uni" next year. I got quite upset and couldn't understand why he needs to be on the other side of the country to study. If he does his uni course part time, he'll be gone for six years! I keep telling him how much of Ruben's life he'll be missing out on.. Also, I REALLY doubt he'll move back at the end of his degree. Whether he does it fulltime for 3 years or parttime for 6 years.. he'll be quite settled again (all his friends and family are in melb.. he really doesn't like brisbane and is quite unhappy here). But basically he thinks it'll be easier to study there as he can live at home so therefore won't have to pay his $200 and something rent that he pays here.
I told him I really think it's a bad idea, as Ruben will really suffer without his Daddy in his life. I've even told Nick he doesn't need to pay me child support anymore, told him he could move into student accommodation as it's cheaper and I would drop ruben off both days on the weekend without him staying overnight (ruben wouldn't be able to stay in a shared accommodation house). I told him I'll do whatever it takes to help him manage a degree/work/child. I honestly think Ruben will really be affected by his dad living so far away, where he'll see him a couple of times a year.
Am I being unreasonable? I just want what's best for Ruben.