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Reganelizabeth, I'm in two minds over that one. Firstly it is important for Ruben to have his father in his life, but secondly its no good having a father who would rather be somewhere else. You've made enough compromises, but really you can't force him to stay. Sorry, if its not what you want to hear. I dont think you are being unreasonable, you have offered and its now up to him to decided where he wants to do his uni.
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