Wow soo much to catch up on

Welcome PZ! I feel for you hun on your TTC journey its a rough ride but hold on there is always hope! xoxo NEVER Listen to people who tell you that you don't deserve something when you know in your OWN heart you would do the best job you could ever do!!!

MrsS- at the nanna and numbers 4 & 5!! would have been great to have seen it
of course age doesn't matter i know a almost 40yr old who has 8 kids and doesnt deserve them as ive seen some horrible stuff, but on the other hand i know a 21yr old pregnant with her 3rd who doesnt deserve them either so of course age doesnt make you a good or bad mummy....It's all in your heart

Kawazuki- welcome, glad to have you join us!
thats lovely you accept your dss as yours u choose to marry your hubby u accept his previous children too, i know a 26yr old who's DP
has 4 children to his ex and she has 1 to him, and those poor step children get treated like crap she has even now just stopped him from continuing on with court fighting for them from their mother that really upsets me they are a package!

Raffy- welcome to you as well!
i'll be looking forward to your BA how exciting being a first time mummy, i understand completely where ur coming from although it took DP and I alot longer then you to concieve, it took us 4yrs our first pregnancy ever (that we knew about) ended in a M/C, a month later i was pregnant again so our DS wasnt an whoopsie he was planned but didnt exspect it to happen so quickly after a m/c.....How exciting to have a baby boy they are just as handsome and loving as a little girl
The age thing ive lost contact with alot of people cause we wanted a family and they didnt and as far as im concerned a family is much much much more enjoyable then going out getting drunk and wasting money basically, my only friends now are basically women alot older then me too i have a few friends with children who are my age but not many most are older

After 8yrs DP and I still have our ups and downs but exactly as Kawazuki mentioned what would life be like if everything went our way, and as much as we whinge about our DP's/DH's we still manage to stick by them (as much as sometimes i get very frustrated with him and yep mainly over HOUSEWORK haha)

Welcome Serenity and Ammaki!!! Glad you come to join us
Havent mentioned this before but i look forward to getting to know everyone better and it helps having others around my age!

Tellytubby- welcome and i feel the same way sometimes about thinking how my life would be different without my DS but you know i would NEVER change my life again and even if i could re-live my life over i would have my DS at the same age, YES it was hard but he is now my life he makes it worthwhile waking up everyday to see a smile on his face and tell me "Good Morning Mummy" when he wakes me up!

Teni- Welcome!!! whoopsie babies frustrate me especially when the mother puts them up for adoption or simply has the baby but doesnt look after it the best way they could there is something called "protection" for a damn reason!
You are going to make a wonderful mum, and look forward to hearing about your BA!

Sarah- Men ahuh i hear you on that one lol he tell's me one day we will have a 3rd then the next week it might be nope 2 is enough! So we shall see im kinda betting i end up pregnant not long after this one is born simply cause i dont want to stuff around with contraception it screws wit my body and i've told DP he will wear a condom and he says like hell i dont like them haha so we shall wait and see once this ones born though!!!
And YAY for the fridge its always exciting to get something new, i just got a new car yesturday!! Spend all day just thinking of things i needed down the road for an excuse to drive it :rolf: im such an idiot! hehe

Deedles- welcome and looking forward to get to know you too!
Congrats on finally having 2 little boys, how do you find being the only girl amongst all your boys lol give me some hints please hehe

Oh dear im going to find hard to keep up with us all now LOL! ooops i was trying to copy my msg "incase" it decided not to post and i didnt have to retype it all, WELL it went the next page and come up with an error im like OH NO ive lost it, luckily it was ONLY telling me i've used too many smilies LOL