bubno 3 - im not judging Kitty at all...im simply just giving her a reply to what she has asked.
She's asking for help and Im just giving my opinion.
Sorry for talking 3rd person Kitty, Im not trying to be mean or horrible to you and im sorry that is how my post's sound.

I know were you are right now..you are me 4 months ago. Its horrible and I just wished someone was there to pull me off my butt and snap me out of it!

I had a total change in me and my family are better for it. Bottom line, I had to change and better ME for my family to benefit.

Sorry if my tacktick's **** anyone off..I say it how I feel it too