hey girls the hols are over for me yeha sorry for those who still have kids at school. Ive a question for those who have step kids living with them, My DD 12 and i had a huge fight this morn long story short i said what i shouldnt out of anger a that ive been up since 11:23PM last night with bubs 4months she tells me she would rather live with her father i tell ya i felt like somone had just kicked me in the guts what do i do ? to be honest life with her is very difficult and has been for somtime shes been having periods since she was 8 not much fun i know poor thing but what about the people living with her how much do we put up with? the week before is usually like this not so bad a combination of lack of sleep on my behalf iv said sorry for the things i said i told her to go to her dad he wont put up with the crap either i new as soon as i left my mouth i was going to be sorry but the other little kids hide when she start s she takes it out on them they cry i stress then take it out on DH in short we all suffer becouse of this. So should i have he go to her fathers she would have to change schools and live in a caravan in the back of her grand parants yard she seems to not care i wont pay maitence becouse i dont work he would have to quick work becouse of the hours or pay for care she dont care she i need time away from her but i dont want her not to want to come back do i let her go? my pride bruised heart ache knowing what i went through when i was with her father the abuse she blames me for the breakup then him leaving up with nothing i had to go work in a meat works and find child care at 4:30am becouse i had to start at 5am i had it tough he went home to mum and dad and didnt pay a cent and now she want s to be with him it hurts so much what do i do i need help ive know one to ask i havnt had a mother in my life since she died when i was 9 i have wished for her to be in my life everyday since it hurts that she pushes me away.
kath