The negative comments have begun! *vent*

**skybie** · February 3rd, 2009, 08:00 AM

That is so rude! i love the fact that she couldnt say it to your face but can let u know what she thinks publicly!
If people think that they're obviously not good enough to be your friend. So long as you and DP and all your littluns are happy thats all that matters.
Again that's so so so rude

Feel better
Skye xx

**Danni** · February 3rd, 2009, 08:01 AM

That is so un-called for.

And you know what Tan? She is jealous. AbsoluteLY jealous!

I would say something to her-- but either way, smile and walk away with your head held so much higher than hers. You have a happy and loving family and I bet she doesnt!

**Astrolady** · February 3rd, 2009, 08:03 AM

It my friend had said that, she'd be a friend no more. That would have made me so mad !! You have every right to be upset Tanya.

**Trillian** · February 3rd, 2009, 08:05 AM

WOW, that's really really really CRASS!!!! You don't say that sort of stuff about a friend, even if they only meant it jokingly. I would be saying something to her about it cause that's just not on. And not only that, people are going to wonder who she's talking about and if you didn't want it completely public yet, then she has to respect that too.

**Papillon** · February 3rd, 2009, 04:01 PM

It my friend had said that, she'd be a friend no more. That would have made me so mad !! You have every right to be upset Tanya.

Make that 2!!!

There no way id be talking to her again.... regardless of her reasons.. FRIENDS would NOT say or even think anything like that! Its just disgusting!

Not to mention petty

**kitten2b** · February 3rd, 2009, 05:00 PM

thats such a rude comment for her to make

SugarDust · February 3rd, 2009, 02:27 PM

poo to her tanya!

It is upto you and your partner how many munchkins you have!

don't listen to her!

**jackrose** · February 3rd, 2009, 09:01 AM

That is so rude! i love the fact that she couldnt say it to your face but can let u know what she thinks publicly!
If people think that they're obviously not good enough to be your friend. So long as you and DP and all your littluns are happy thats all that matters.
Again that's so so so rude

Feel better
Skye xx

Well said skybie, it is absolutely unacceptable to be so rude to a person 'behind their back' / 'in public'. If she said it to you, at least you would have had a right of reply. I think you have a perfectly justifiable right to feel offended. A new pregnancy is something to be congratulated, celebrated and enjoyed, not disapproved of by someone who has no responsibility in the situation or mocked so crassly.

I agree with the others who suggest to 'unfriend' her. I wouldn't bother posting back, her comment doesn't deserve a public response. I would avoid a public slinging match - it would just be more upsetting. I had a friend go through something like this on facebook, someone was really offensive and when she messaged them, the person sent her private message to everyone with a sarcastic response. It wasn't pretty. I think you should just move on as the bigger person and celebrate the new addition to your clan.

Congratulations Tanya, what a wonderful gift to have a big family. More joy for you and your partner and more siblings for your kids. Siblings can give kids support in this world like no-one else can.