How heartbreaking for you both, its just awful.

Have a chat with DD and let her know she doesn't have to go, let the stupid man fight for visitation (but it doesn't sound like he will - the ahole). Did the councellor give you any help with what to say to her about it?

Will the councellor write a letter giving his recommendation? If so, maybe you can post it off to the mother to explain why you are stopping the visits to HIM, but not her?

Post a picture up of him, then if any BB girls recognize him, they can kick him in the gonads for you xoxoxoxoxo