Hi Ladies just thought id update you as i saw the post again.

Funnily enough i had a long hard talk to exs MUm, she understood where i was coming from and said she was fine as long as she could still see DD.

Well all the fun began again this week.
DD went to visit her Dad and his mum for Christmas, I thought being Christmas its only fair that they have a day with her, well her Dad took her out to the beach for the day. She said she had fun but that Nana and Dad kept telling her to ring me and ask to sleep, she told them no she wasnt allowed to sleep.
Her dad then asked her if she would be allowed to go see his partner, when DD said No he replied "ah well you wont ever get to see your halfsister". WTF.....
Why would you say this to a 10 yr old.


Anyway his Mum called yesterday and spoke to DD and asked what time she could pick her up, when DD said she wasnt coming her Nana replied oh your Dad will be sad though.
Again WTF.

So today she rings again and speaks to me ( i was in the shower yesterday)
I say to her I had this conversation with you and told you she would not be coming anymore, she tells me how EX has improved. WTF he has DD for one day and takes her out and im supposed to see that as improving. I tell her i dont think so. I also tell her that when DD comes to visit they should all keep their mouths shut and just enjoy her instead of the emotional blackmail. I state that if this continues i will stop all contact.

Argggggg I can not believe this family.

a) ex never rings to arrange visists, he gets his MUm too

b) I have spoke to his MUm and she agreed

c) they forget and think i will just let them do what they want.

d) my poor darling DD is suffering and is made to feel guilty for not going to see her Dad.