Lulu yes Ex Mil defends her son, but she says she doesnt agre with him and has had words with him.
Today i took my daughter around to visit her Nana, I left her alone there for a few hours as the boys were getting restless. First i get a phone call from DD asking if she can sleep the night, I had to say no as she has a dentist appointment tomorrow morning . Then MIl brings her home, and she starts on me asking me if DD is coming over this weekend cause her Dad is sad and misses her, I say no. She says oh he knows the rules now, I tell her he has known the rules for 8 yrs. She then says cant he have a second chance how can he prove himself. I tell her he should have thought about that first, that this is not about a dog or a toy but MY CHILD. I tell her he is a big grown man now same age as me so he can deal with it like i have to. If he wants to discuss it he can contact me. I will talk to ex MIL about her seeing DD but not about ex. He has to grow up and make contact instead of hiding behind his MUmmy.
Grrrrrrrrrr once again what could have and should have been a good day out for my DD gets ruined by silly adults.
I think you did and said absolutely the right thing Tan. It's a shame for MIL because she obviously wants to see her granddaughter and sounds like a decent sort but it's up to your ex to sort out his own access. And he should just get off his butt and do the right thing - he's had long enough to get his act together.
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