Oh Bec, how devastating.. I'm so sorry

I don't have an issue with exposing kids to death or funerals, but a child's funeral is different. I would not take them. Also it may be too difficult for the parents. We had a no children rule at the twins funeral.

Shanti - It could possibly be too much to to expect a 2 and 4 year old to sit still through something they would consider boring..