Ugh, it's awful when friends fall in love with people that make your skin crawl! I have had to give away a friendship because I couldn't stand her husband & I couldn't in fairness inflict him on my husband if they came over. I just couldn't bear to be anywhere around him and his stupid, big mouth & all the crappola that flows out of it. It's tough, but I found myself losing respect for my friend - why oh why does she stay with him - so in the end it came down to couldn't really be bothered maintaining the friendship.

So I understand your dilema, and hope that it all works out for you!