So after all that worrying my friend has to work(just started a new job too so cant get a day off), Devo!

Heaven- He is more of a closet douche so I dont think he would have done anything to warrant being kicked out.
Cherished- Hi Good idea. Ill have to keep that in mind for next party. Hope I was looking spunky in your dream heheh.
Lulu- Ive told her she deserves better in the past, but she is so gentle and loving I think she would stand by him no matter what anybody said.
Winter- Thats rough!

Thanks again everyone for the advice!