Should I invite her partner?

[Heaven]

ugh, how annoying!
I agree, you have to invite him. But if he is as bad as you say maybe you have to be prepared to ask him to leave if he starts being feral?? Then you can say to your friend 'I'm sorry but we don't put up with that kind of behaviour' and maybe she can get the hint that she should do the same! lol.
Although, that's a lot of drama for a first b'day party and you don't want to have to be dealing with that.

[Peach*]

So after all that worrying my friend has to work(just started a new job too so cant get a day off), Devo!

Heaven- He is more of a closet douche so I dont think he would have done anything to warrant being kicked out.
Cherished- Hi Good idea. Ill have to keep that in mind for next party. Hope I was looking spunky in your dream heheh.
Lulu- Ive told her she deserves better in the past, but she is so gentle and loving I think she would stand by him no matter what anybody said.
Winter- Thats rough!

Thanks again everyone for the advice!