I know this thread is a bit old now, but I need to vent. I haven't told ANY of my family. My mother is an idiot who successfully 'planned' her offspring (to the minute) and who doesn't even believe in PMS. Worse she is the least discreet person on the planet, no really. My auntie did IVF and I personally heard my mother announce (and go into huge amounts of detail) to 1) stranger at the bus stop, 2) waitress in a restaurant, 3) every family member and friend. Further, she feels it is her God given right to have grandchildren and asks me at EVERY available opporunity when DH and I 'plan' to have children. I actually avoid seeing her alone as then I can't leave, ignore her, have something urgent to do lol! She also make comments about my cousins like "you'd never know they were IVF" and "they look normal" -