Hi Ferrals,

Welcome to this thread - you've gone through so much. Please take care of yourself

I also had a husband who didn't want to do IVF and we had a one in two chance of having a faulty gen - unfortunately that is what happened and we had to have a termination at 14 weeks, it was the most horrible thing that ever happened to me. During that time I found much support on A Heartbreaking Choice

I am now with a new partner and we're doing IVF. I am with SIVF - they can do PGD for a large number of genetic abnormalities, for some info check sivf.com.au

Sara