thanks for the ap suggestion Holly - my problem is that, because i have no cycle at all, i need to have some for of hormone replacement to build a lining anyway - otherwise i'm not going to have one - so the questions become - which form??? i think i'm actually not too worried about having some time out for the next month or so - it will be a better mindset going back to wok if i have nothing else hanging over my head - give myself a chance to clear my head, and get used to DH's work situation before we leap into anything else...

the ONLY person i'd trust locally as an AP is also my chiro - he is closing next Friday til the 14th of Jan - so will talk to him after that about what he might be able to help with.