As a mother who has conceived naturally and now sadly has to use IVF because of reasons which are privately my own (medical), i think it is up to the individual couple who are trying to have the baby/ies. It is not anyone elses business not now not ever, and i certainly don't think that it should ever be up for discussion as to how your child/ren are brought into this world. Everyone is being so critical of a couple having IVF for twins, but look at the news recently how a couple is taking their IVF dr to court because they got twins,and they only wanted ONE child. They want to send one of the twins to a private school with all the bells and whistles, while the other lives the "cinderella" syndrome and has to go to a public school, and the normal things in life while the other lives the live of luxury. I thought we were meant to be thankful for what we have been given not the other way around, but now i think this topic needs to be put to bed as it has now gone past the point of being a simple polling question to a full on debate. cheers kiya