Yeah I suggested a counciller but my wife wants to wait until the final blood test next week and see how her feelings and emotions are going then. I think I need to try and be stronger through this time and just be there for her instead of thinking the worst.

Give her her space when needed and be there for a sholder to cry on when needed.

Also suggested the getting away for a while but she thinks she is not up to it.

I will just get on with this week and try and be as strong as I can and see how things pan out.

Thanks for the replies.