Friends and Family Supporting LTTTCers

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*pg and children mentioned*

My sis was on the cusp of being classed as LTTTC when she fell pg with my beautiful niece. Seeing her struggle month after month with bfns and then having to tell her that we were having a surprise baby (I later found out that AF had just arrived too) tore me up. It was then that I decided that I wanted to do whatever I could to help someone else realise their dreams. After I have finished BFing this baby I plan to donate my eggs.

I do like to support the LTTTC girls on here, and many of them know that I plan on being an ED. I try hard to be supportive without rubbing salt into the wounds, and I hope beyond all hope that I am succeeding in that. I trust that the LTTTC girls will let me know if I have overstepped the mark, and I am very aware of the feelings they feel when they get another bfn, but not having been there I haven't felt them to the same degree. I also stuggle when I am talking to them while they are pg, because I worry that I may say something that still pushes the wrong buttons (and I hope that they know that I am never upset by them saying something about what they went through to get to that stage )

I must say I was more excited for BG getting her sticky bfp than I was with my own bfp a few weeks after!! And I was jumping around the house when BW got hers!! So each and every LTTTCer that I notice a bfp for has a party going on at my house too!!