but maybe thats what you mean BG: that some people arent just that supportive type even when its not about TTC>>>>
yep, that's where i was going. for some people, being able to support people just isn't in their nature - no matter what is happening in your life, their dramas are more important. i have days like that (first to admit it) but most of the time i try to put others before me - in a lot of ways, helping my friends when they're in a crisis actually helps me to put my own stuff into perspective and that's always a good thing...