Baby2bee... oh hun, don't we all know that story. I am lucky though, my DH came around really quickly (after about 15mths) when I told him to just shut up and hug me after clomid day 2 hysteria struck the second time. Since then he's realised that I don't expect him to fix anything, just be there and tell me he knows its hard and maybe if he has a moment, tell me its hard for him too. I had to tell him outright that the worst part was feeling alone with the pain of not having a child because he seemed fine with it.
We had the IVF initial meeting and I was the opposite of typical I am sure lol. The nurse kept checking I was alright and I kept checking with DH to make sure he could cope with the drug induced moods lol.
He knows whats me and what isn't, and does his best. And I try to make it up to him by being extra gentle and kind when not overly hormonal.
You just gotta keep talking and touching each other, as every one else has advised. to you both, its a steep learning process for us all.
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I might have to print this out and show DH so he doesn't just think it's me... They just don't get... Wow.. it's so nice to laugh...
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