Nic and Sue - thank you so much for your words of advice. They are really appreciated!!!! Nic I read your email to dh last night and finally...i think he may be starting to understand why I'm the way I am!!! I also watched the video you mentioned yesterday and i started crying as soon as the bloody music started!!!! What a wonderful movie. I'm actually going to send it through to some friends of mine. Again THANK YOU!!!!
That is excellent Baby2Bee! Hopefully this will be the start of bigger and better things to come (and a BIG Woohoo to your DH too)

Nic