It was so good to read others experiences with friendships.

I have begun to feel like a good luck charm to everyone else- all I come into contact with becomes pregnant without even trying!!
I can handle any of the IVF procedures, but it's the isolation that has come now with my friends moving forward with making their families that is most painful. And seeing them only reminds me of my own grief. My poor friends- they can't win. I'm upset if they tell me about their pregnancy, and upset if they exclude me from it. I had one friend who told me "there's more to you and I than just being pregnant, or trying to get pregnant", which I agree with, but I think people who have been able to fall pregnant easily don't get how all consuming it can be.

And at what point do we stop hoping and focusing on other aspects of life so it's not all consuming? And how?