Thanks gals for your support and advice, both are helpful to me. It is a very personal decision and one that I just don't want to take too lightly. I suppose this whole IVF thing doesn't feel completely real at times but having viable embies ready to go is soooo full of possibility, the closest we may ever be to having the chance to be parents (although I do believe we will be parents sooner or later).

I am really interested to also hear from any Long Term TTCers that have faced this dillema before and what they considered when making their decision.

It is a bit of a bugger that this is happening on a quiet BB day - pressure is on for us tomorrow.

dusty