I think you have answered your own question Dusty. You have to feel like the choice you made was the right one, no matter what the eventual outcome is. It is one of the bigger decisions you will make, and you need to be OK with whatever happens as a result. I hate to say it but this could be a bad result, and good result, or a perfect result...whatever that is for you guys.
Seeing as you asked i will tell you how i decided on 1 embryo. I know two beautiful sets of girl twins, and in each case one twin has a very severe physical disability, a direct link to being a twin. I decided that i wanted, as best i could, to avoid more possible birth complications.
Twins would be fabulous - and I think that i'd love to have twins, but i couldn't justify the risks to myself.
In the end my FS recommended that due to my poor egg/embryo quality that he put back two last time...so after all my deliberating, i ended up taking his advice and putting 2 back!!!! I am now nearly 7 weeks pg with a singleton.
That is purely my opinion and was right for me. Everyone is different, and i am only saying because you asked how other LTTTCers had come to their decision.
Good Luck and i wish you all the very best tomorrow!!
Jo
PS...they always made me decide well before the trf...they felt that just before the trf was too much pressure and they liked to give you more time to think about it.
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