My FS took some getting used to, too, BW. He can seem aloof, and has a very dry sense of humour that I didn't always appreciate when in a heightened emotional state. But I have grown to understand him now and the way he is, and I suspect that he's gotten to know me and my idiosyncrasies (read 'pushiness' here) as well. I must admit, from what I've heard of other clinics, I do believe I've been fortunate with mine too.