Hi All,

I am new here (just posted my introduction message!) so I don't know all the etiquette for these forums, please give me a nudge if I get it wrong.

I've had one failed IVF attempt, but we have a few frozen embies from that cycle. I have a whacky cycle, but I don't want to take HRT yet so I'm just having heaps of blood tests to see whether they can do the embryo transfer naturally (ie no HRT).

I feel like IVF is a catch 22. It significantly increases my chances of overcoming IF, but at the same time it makes IF so much harder to deal with because it's in my face every day and I'm investing so much of myself in it all. I honestly find IF easier to deal with when I'm not doing IVF. Does anyone else have this problem? I would really appreciate any advice. I don't know how much more I can put myself through in the effort to conceive.

Thanks guys.