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    oops, not for a month Saffy, just from day 14 to day 24. We've been out in the sun too. I opened up DD's cubbie house and it was so full of earwigs that DH hosed it out and then I killed a redback spider in the corner.


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    Evening ladies!

    Sunbeam - sorry to hear that you didnt get the result you were expecting but great that there is 6! Praying that they stay strong! My g/f only had 5 out 21 fertilise and survive, she got preg that cycle with twins! She is now 20wks! xx

    Saffy- hope that cold hasnt hit you to much and you had a well deserved, peaceful evening last night at home xx

    ferrals - were all counting down with you! stay strong

    matthewsmum - yay for the 2ww! how are you going with everything emotionally? hope the break helps to clear your mind and your soul xx

    mildez - how are you and bubs going lovey??

    alice - so happy to hear all those follies are on track!!! Good growing girl! Good you and DH can have a giggle after a silly fight! Same with me and my DH, half the time we forget what we were even cranky about!

    toomanyshoes - welcome to this thread, im sorry to here of your difficult situation and the loss of your angels... i agree with Saffy in perhaps going to the specialist alone and taking it from there!! Good luck with your journey, we are all here to help xx

    crafty - hows your 2ww going?? Mine is draaaaaaaging!!

    AFM - all good here, chugging thru this 2ww... nothing much happening except very huge sore boobs but im guessing that from the pessaries more than anything! oh and no voice from screaming at the grand final yesterday! it was exhausting!! And we have to do it all again next week!! Aaggghh! Heart attack waiting to happen!
    And my holidays have finished, back to work tomorrow! Boo! thank god my cold is getting better!

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    Sunbeam, that's terrific news - grow blasties grow!! I wonder why that 6 cell one isn't good? I would have thought that'd be the strong one...hmm. Hoping they keep growing well to day 5 and you get your 2 to transfer and 2 to freeze. I'm in two minds about transferring two (if we get that option). Did you talk to your FS about it? Curious to know what she said if you did. Good luck hon x

    SammyP, good luck with this cycle - hope you caught that egg.

    MatthewsMum, glad the Osteopath is helping - I saw one last year and she was great. Am hoping to get in to see her this week as my back is a bit out. I still do the exercises she gave me a couple of times a week and always feel so much better afterwards. I hope these next few months of TTC naturally go well for you and bring you a lovely BFP to celebrate.

    Saffy, any sign of AF? I got out in the garden too today but am soo tired don't think I was much help. Got to hang with the chooks though and that's always fun. Put some aloe vera on your burn you bad girl! It's been so long since my skin has seen the sun I glow in the dark. So embarrassing!

    T-hopes, hope you enjoyed the finals! How're you feeling? Can't wait until you can test and put us out of our suspense!

    Hi Mildez, nice to hear from you. Hope all is well with you and bubs.

    Ferrals, did you get in to have that scan in Newcastle? If I could wish away the days for you I would...must be driving you crazy. I think we'll be getting our results at the same time.

    Intheslowlane- hope that holiday does just the trick

    Crafty, how's the craft room going? That's a good TWW project if ever there was one!

    Hi Porsche, Damprye, Toomanyshoes and anyone else I've missed. Hope you are all well.

    AFM, well back down for another scan tomorrow. Hope my weekend of sleeping has given those follies time to grow. Hope things are progressing OK, always worried that something will happen to set us back. Fingers crossed x

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    sammyp-hopefully your pain was for a good reason...saffy-thanks,hope the sunburn's not too sore...t-hopes-thanks,i hope trying something new will help...alice-be watching for your update tomorrow...afm-osteopath gave me some visualisation exercises to do,that's my homework for the week,i'm trying to put 100% into her techniques but it is quite different for me.i started crying in the middle of the session,she had me doing a visualisation exercise were i imagined matthew in a bubble floating up to the heavens.she feels i haven't let go of my grief enough to allow another pregnancy to happen but i don't understand that because ladies get pregnant after loss while still grieving the bub sometimes bubs they lost.

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    MatthewsMum, grief is so different for everyone. I don't think many people in my life understand the grief I went through - continue to go through - with the loss of our baby in January. For me it was the culmination of many losses experienced over a long period of time, and that made it particularly difficult. So I guess what I'm saying is that your loss of Matthew is a very particular to you and how it affects you will be different to how it affects others. I hope the visualizations you are doing help, I find them very comforting. You'll let go of Matthew when you are ready, in your own time and in your own way, and he will always be with you and be part of your life and your family. Sometimes it's good to have others acknowledge the loss we are still experiencing because it helps us continue to understand our grief, if that makes sense. to you xx

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    Alice that was nice what you said to matthewsmum.

    Well...I POAS this am and got a very very faint second line.....now I'm freaking out a bit cos I don't have any real symptoms, so is this a chemical pregnancy? Its been a week and a half since the spotting, the hormones should be strong by now....I'm going to ring the clinic when they open and get a BT, not expecting anything good to come of this so please don't get excited for me cos I'm sure this isn't a sticky one-SH*T

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    Alice I hope your scan shows a record and some beautifully grown follies. Lovely advise also you give.

    Saffy I can understand your concern. Hope your HCG is much much higher then you think it is.

    Sunbeam I think the embie thats is growing to quickly can be a sign of chromosomal problems is they are too quick growing. I have heard that somewhere before. Someone correct me if I am wrong. FX they are all growing beautifully and continue to do so and you have some lovely embies to freeze and a successful t/f which gives you your sticky BFP.

    Thanks for asking about me. I think everything thing is going ok. We have had a nasty Bug going around DD was even in hospital for 3days and now DH has it and I am worried I'll get it. I hope to God I don't.

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    alice-thank you so much for your beautiful words....saffy-hope you don't have to wait to long for the bt results...mildez-sending no bug vibes to you

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    oh saffy - praying with all my heart that you have some wonderful results today... my fingers are so tightly crossed for you... when are you having BT? xx

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    Hi Ladies,

    Saffy - Sorry but I am already excited ! Don't be concerned about the numbers plenty of sucsessful BFP's start with low hcg that's one thing I noticed on the IVF sucsess site.

    T-Hopes- Thank you for that it is exactly what i needed to hear. I have been checking out the fertility community list of IVF sucsesses and my numbers do not seem unusal. Also the vast majority of ladies had sucsess on their first go so that has given me more hope. I so hope the sore boobs is a great sign. Sucks you have to go back to work but at least you have another grand final to look forward to.

    Alice - How's those follies coming along? I have not spoekn to FS about transfer numbers yet I just know that at my clinic at 39 they'd be looking to put 2 back if possible. I hope you have great follies and not as many as me because to be honest the OHSS is really starting to hurt, bloating, painful kidneys and just generally feeling yuck. I've only got to go in for one client today thankfully.

    Mathwe'smum - My psychic said the same thing to me that I had to really let go of my angels inorder to make room for a new baby. It was very hard but I did a little ceremony and asked them to go and be with the other people I've lost so that they can take care of them for me. It still makes me sad but I feel I don't dwell on them so much now.

    Mildez - Sorry to hear your DD was in hospital and that DH is now sick too. I hope you manage to stay germ free.

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    Sunbeam - Glad I was able to help a little - she was soooo devastated by her result, she was sobbing.. she has had 3 miscarriages in the past and was just shattered....she had totally written off that cycle and 12 days later... i light BFP that kept getting darker day by day... her BT was on the higher side of normal but didnt suggest twins... then on her 2nd u/s at 8 wks... a little
    2nd shadow!! She is doing so well now!!! xx

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    THopes- I went straight in after I spoke to them so will get result this afternoon. I will be at work so I told the nurse to leave a message if I don't answer, I sometimes can't take calls if I am busy.
    Thanks for your prayers everyone- am beginning to think I hallucinated the faint faint line so have pulled it out of the bin about 10 times just to recheck- not that I'm going nuts or anything

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    ooohh Saffy - im so nervous for you!!! I will be checking every 10mins for your results!!! xx

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    Alice-on the 6th i have my scan at newcastle and then on the 18th i have another at the fetal medicine unit hopefully they see absolutely nothing abnormal.

    Saffy-ooooh so exciting!

    Sunbeam-3 is good fingers crossed.

    Mildez-so far i have been lucky all the kids and DH have been sick with colds and tonsilitis and i have missed it all even at work it is going around and i have managed to escape it all i think i had my fair share last year.
    I hope you have a nice strong immunity and it skips you.

    Mathewsmum-hope the break and ttc naturally does you the world of good.

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    Hi everyone,

    Oh Saffy!! I know you said don't get excited but I am letting myself get a little bit. My SIL and my bestie both had very low HCG to begin with - in fact, the IVF clinic my SIL went to told her she wasn't pg! My niece is now 1 1/2! Oh I'm sooo hoping things go this way for you - I know you said you haven't had any signs but crossing all my fingers and toes anyway.

    Mildez, sorry your little one has been in hospital -I hope she is OK now and I REALLY hope you don't get it. Bit hard to avoid but like Ferrals said hopefully your immune system is nice and strong. Fingers crossed.

    Sunbeam, any news on your blasties??? When is your TF? Lovely words to MatthewsMum from you too about saying goodbye to your angels. I hope you'll get your earth baby soon (as Kit used to say). x

    Ferrals, god I'm hoping that scan is clear for you - so that's next week isn't it? I think I'll be getting my results back around the 18th - I hope it's all good news for us and I really hope more than anything that it's good news for you and your DH.

    Hi to everyone else x

    AFM well had my last scan today and my little follies are now all between 19-16 which I'm pleased with. Didn't get blood levels 'cause DH forgot to ask! They said it was all really good so we'll see. So tonight I'll have the trigger injection at 10.30. Bit excited but trying to keep a lid on it as I know that tomorrow it could all go the other way so just feeling pleased for today. I'm hoping we get 3 good eggs then the next hurdle is the fertilisation. Getting close now - hope we get to the next stage of growing blasties. Fingers crossed.
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    ooh Alice! thats great news!! Im sooo excited for you!!! So does that mean EPU tomorrow??! happy triggering!!! xx

    Ladies - there is a show on SBS2 tonight at 8.30pm called The Great Sperm Race!! I have heard good things about it so might be worth a peek!!!

    Saffy - any news?? you must stiil be at work?! thinking of you

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    Where is Saffy? What's the go we need to know! The suspense is killing me!

    Alice - Whoo trigger tonight. I think that meanns you will be doing EPU at exactly the same time as my transfer (10.30am Wednesday) lets hope its a lucky time for both of us. Update is that the good 3 are still going well. I will hear tomorrow if FS agrees to 2 going back in.

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    Saffy, you're killing us here. All the best love.

    Thanks for the show T-hopes. I'll have a look.

    Exciting news Alice.

    Hi to all. Only 3 days til holidays

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