Crafty, you've given us all heart failure woman, talking like that!! Quads!! LOL well if anyone could handle it, it would be you and your DH. Glad you got your hands on some Clomid and go the preseed! Have fun bding and maybe just catching that egg is OK (no scrambling required!)

Saffy, a massage! My god, my DH would have to be well happy to do something like that! Sounds like you've hit on a good formula. Win win!! I kept thinking you started on Sunday so it's this week. I got all excited and a bit ahead of myself. Bring on the baby vibes, it's your turn now! x

Possum, eek about the skin - I get that too so let's hope it's a sign of early pg with you and not She Who Must Not Be Named. Yeah, I think the year off will be OK. Will talk to my acupuncturist/Chinese herb doc today to get her advice about what to do next.

India's Mum, I will try DOCS (though I'm not keen on the idea) and do a bit of research on other agencies. Barnardos have a really good reputation so if we have to wait then we will. I was just laughing at the lifestyle idea. Hmpff, if you call feeding your chooks and going to be early a lifestyle then I guess I have a great one! Where are you up to at the moment? I got sidetracked and can't remember?

Ferrals, well that's one sleep down, two more to go. See, you're one third of the way there already. How are you today? What are you up to?

Sunbeam, are you traveling the high seas yet or sorting out things at home? Are you OK about being there on your own for a while? I'm really sorry your flatmate did that to you. Been thinking of you. Hope this time out is helping you decide what to do next x

hello to all our other lovely women, hope all is well with you x

AFM well I'm slowly feeling better though the two times I ventured out of the house since last week have ended in floods of tears. Who'd have thought going to my local market could be so upsetting!? I've been hiding out at home but today I'm going to Sydney to see my acupuncturist/Chinese medicine doc to let her know about the cycle and to talk about what's next so hope that goes OK. My good friend is home from OS with my god daughter so going to drop in on them if I feel up to it and see my little godson at the same time. They are great kids and always make me laugh so that's probably what I need a good dose of silliness from them and a hug from her. It really is one step at a time and slowly the bits of your life fall back into place again and for that I'm truly grateful! xx