Ferrals huge ((hugs)) I wonder if we know the same person. I too found out yesterday a lady I knew died (she has 2 boys although one not in her care and a bubba that passed away shortly after birth) I too am devastated and can't help but think if the system didn't fail her (that lead to the death of her baby) if this would not have happened. It really is heartbreaking to think of the children who are left without parents when it could be avoided.