Alice-The owner of our house has put it on the market for half a million (what an idiot) there is no way he will get that he has tried to sell it twice before and failed he is an oversea's person (don't want to use the other word in case i offend people) who has unrealistic expectations on a beautiful huge house that is unfinished and needs a fair bit of work and the houses around us have sold for less and they are finished with landscaping ect so we are just packing and taking our time i want to try to hang on until the end of july when we get our tax back.
And the court case is on the 20th of july but we might be able to avoid it because i have been putting my foot down when it concerns DH's ex and not letting her manipulate him we have court papers that say we have his daughter every 2nd weekend and half of all school holidays we are to get her fridays after school and return her to school monday mornings well the ex will text and say i can't drop emily off friday because i have plans it will have to be saturday and i say NO be here friday as the court papers say or not at all and then after school holidays we sometimes don't see emily for 6 weeks so when the ex texts and says i will drop emily over this weekend i say NO we had no idea when you are going to bring emily to us so we made plans to go away (i bluffed) so if you followed the court papers as you are suposed to we would no when we are having her so if you want a babysitter find someone else otherwise we want emily every 2nd weekend as the court has ordered.
And emily has started asking her mum why she wont let her see her dad so i think the ex is starting to feel guilty because she rang and said can we forget the past and just do what the court papers say and we have had emily for the last two weekends to make up for some lost time.
So fingers crossed she sticks to it and we can avoid court one less stress off my shoulders.
Or she rang the courts and found out we had a contrevention order on her and the papers were going to be served on her soon and she sh#t herself because she would get a fine and a bond.
Crafty-you will be fine with your appointment just go in there without having unrealistic expectations don't expect them to say yep you are as fertile as a 20 year old and we will have you pregnant in no time expect them to say you are at the end of your childbearing days and it will be tough but there is still eggs in there and you are still ovulating so there is still a good chance so lets give you a hand at getting pregnant as quick as possible while you still have some good eggs left even if its just U/S to track your follies and doing an IUI on the right day that will increase your chances we don't want to waste or miss any of our eggs do we.
I am looking forward to what they say and don't go in there nervous you are paying for it and it is your body and you know what you want so you go get it.
Porsche-I know hun i have those days to i feel for you we are here for you i am also in the older womens thread and some times i feel like it is so depressing i was also in the m/c thread but had to leave because there was to many BFP with all the newbies who just joined and i just lost the plot so i had to leave.
AFM-6dpo for me and couldnt give a rats rahzoo don't want to think about testing just waiting for AF to see if i made the june IVF list.
But i will say i noticed some cramping yesterday at work and i had way more than normal c/m and just feel headachey my skin is really dry and i have been going to the toilet a fair bit both ways and have lost a kilo in 2 days so i must be coming down with something.
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