hi all, saffy-hugs,you were brave going to see her in the 1st place...alice-you need to do what is best for your heart,i've hid & avoided pregnant ladies,it is just too hard sometimes,maybe write down some responses on paper before the call...ferral-yes,i've heard about fluid leaking out,gyno & fs didn't seem to think this would be the case with me,i've got to speak to ivf nurse today,i think i'll ask her opinion as well...crafty-wondering??.afm-worrying about embie thawing tomorrow,heard some stories of people getting phone calls half way to clinic,told none have survived