Saffy, I know it's terribly hard - I'm sure your friend means well but she just has no idea. It can be very hard for women who have no problems TTC to understand the complexity of the problems we face - if only relaxing would grow back or unblock our tubes, or unstick our ovaries, or fix our low egg reserve, or push our biological clocks backwards, or give us the extra $$ we need for IVF, or fix our DH's sperm, or stop our immune systems attacking our embies, or our blood from clotting, or the million other things we all face in here. it is so upsetting and so damn frustrating! If it was that easy, don't they think we might have already tried it???!!! I hope your day at work is OK,

Crafty...hoping to hear from you soon x