Saffy - I agree with Alice. It is so easy for people who don't have fertility issues to give "advise". I'm sure it's all ment with concern and a sence of trying to be supportive but you really get tired of the "advise". I had our QLD Operations manager tell me he only had to look at his wife and she got pregnant. This was just after I told him that I will be having time off for IVF and felt that as Management he needed to know. He then proceded to tell me all about his sister's fertility as well. I really don't care to hear that considering I know I have a problem. Geez.
Once we start IVF I will not be telling any family or friends about it. They ask too many questions and I found out that it is openly discussed with extended family on DH side. I'm talking about his cousin whom I really don't know and would definately NOT tell him and his wife besides the fact that he and his wife are pregnant and they feel "sorry" for us because they fell straight away. Well bully for them. Gee that turned into a bit of a story eh?
Matthews Mum - I'm sure it will all be fine. It's natural to worry. Good luck for tomorrow! I'll be checking in to see how you are.
Alice - I'm glad your feeling much better about it now. I think you needed to prepare yourself and how to react. I hope it all goes well. I'm sure you'll be sad when it's done but you are a very strong woman and we will be here for you to tough it out.
Crafty - Oh my. What a terrible thing to have to sit through and listen to. Take as much time as you need.
AFM not much. Did I mention I got a + OPK on Wednesday? Hmmm Can't remember and I can't go back a few pages lol Ahh well anywho I hope I O tonight as I usually O 2 days after a + OPK. I'm abit nervous actually cause I'm not 100% sure it was +. I'm hoping for a temp rise tomorrow to confirm but I really don't know. Doesn't matter I guess because its 3 days till our appointment.
Last edited by Porsche; June 18th, 2010 at 01:50 PM.
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