Mel...I'm so sorry I missed the bit about work last night...that's just WRONG! What about occ health and safety...I'd be making a formal complaint...just not good enough!!! Ahhhhh...so mad! And you're right...it's not fair...but we keep going...primarily because we have no choice but I think the HOPE of what awaits us ...our precious little ones...picks us up. Hang in there xxx